tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1123252100776224328.post1821151458970048971..comments2022-03-22T07:56:41.331-04:00Comments on DD Ken&Barbie: ConfusionBarbiehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00720602208948054707noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1123252100776224328.post-46045028910302109552012-02-22T11:05:29.662-05:002012-02-22T11:05:29.662-05:00Ohh please don't "apologize" for you...Ohh please don't "apologize" for your writing style!! There are no rules, this is your blog. Some people choose to write their blogs more formally, others choose to formulate their posts simply based on what's in their head, stream of consciousness, if you will. I like how honest your blog is! <br /><br />Sorry to hear you're confused right now :( Do you/have you done maintenance with Ken? My boyfriend and I just started and I personally really like it. I know it seems silly to get spanked just "because", however, if you can handle the pain, it's a great way for him to keep you grounded. The nice part is it's not punishment, as you haven't done anything wrong. So, you're not going to feel regret, disappointment, or remorse as he spanks. Really, it's just a reminder of who is in charge and it will bring you back to center. There are many ways to do it. For us, the spanking is firm but less intense than a punishment. He'll ask me to state who is in charge, etc. That's just what works for us though, it may be different for you! I think it's good to experiment. Maybe try letting him spank you this time and then see how it makes you feel after. <br /><br />I hope that helps! If you want to talk more on this, shoot me an email!Rileyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01839475326755424479noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1123252100776224328.post-7949723702048458002012-02-22T04:15:40.062-05:002012-02-22T04:15:40.062-05:00First of all, great job on such an amazing streak ...First of all, great job on such an amazing streak staying out of trouble! Secondly all of us, I think go through those times when our feelings about everything are all jumbled up, and we're trying to figure it out! For me, I write anyway, and as I write, sometimes days and days what I'm feeling each day, things begin to clarify. But yeah, this is lifestyle is SO confusing. As you know, too, it's also always about communication, particularly if he knows where you are better than you do! Hang in there, and give yourself time! It's a process! Hugs! :)Kayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03055228106900399814noreply@blogger.com